Information and thoughts regarding: pregnancy, childbirth education, homebirth, VBAC, midwifery, natural birth, infant massage, breastfeeding, attachment parenting, pregnancy massage - fees and schedule for VENTURA BIRTH CLASS and other services. for more detailed info see my web site: maternalinstincts.net also see: sunrisecentral.blogspot.com sunrisebirthingcenter.com
In a Nutshell..... Why do I do this?
Last Friday, I rode with the midwife I assist to do our home visit with one of our clients. We typically make a home visit before the birth so we can familiarize ourselves with the route - makes it so much easier than driving cold turkey in the dark- and we get the sense of the layout of the home in terms of the birth. This was a repeat client but she had moved since her last birth. It took a bit of doing to get there and it was a lovely rural type setting. The weather was warm and the sky was clear and blue. She greeted us with her toddler. We chatted and toured her cozy home. Then we did the prenatal appointment- belly check, fetal heart tone check, urine check, blood pressure check- etc. Her little one showed us some of his toys. I admired some of her homemade toys and she showed me how to do the blanket stitch in order to finish the edge of her handmade doll. We lingered a bit and I remembered her last birth. I'm very much looking forward to attending this birth. We hugged goodbye and waved as we slowly drove out of the driveway. I looked out the window as they stood there watching us leave. For me- the next time I see her she will be in the midst of labor, as I'm typically not called until labor is advanced. The midwife precedes me and calls me to assist when she needs me which is usually later in labor. The mama looked so beautiful with her round belly and her precious little one was standing there by her side. It was as it should be. I felt almost moved to tears and I thought " We have the best job in the world!"Every woman deserves this type of prenatal care. We get to know the family. We listen with respect and true interest. The midwife builds a relationship with the mama and the family. When labor begins we attend as invited caregivers. We will be the supporters of the process. The birth will be attended with care and attention. The family unit is respected and supported. The baby will be gently and lovingly welcomed into the arms of his/her mama and in his/her own home. I love home birth. Love it love it love it.Post partum care is equally wonderful. They don't have to go anywhere. We leave them settled in in their own bed. Personal attention. Family support. Breastfeeding support. In addition to the personal visits there is the continual availability for phone consultations. Midwifery does not leave mothers and babies in the lurch. I'm so proud to have a share in this model of care. I wish this type of care for all families.So, there it is..... I love this work. It never grows old. As is the case with this family we build a history with our clients. What a privilege. If only more women availed themselves of this dignifying and respectful model of care. As a nurse part of my role is education. I feel the need to make this model known as an option. I'm using this blog as one way to accomplish that goal.
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Tuesday, September 1, 2009
Monday, August 31, 2009
Quote from Peggy O'Mara of Mothering Magazine
"It is the nature of the child to be dependent, and it is the nature of dependence to be outgrown. Begrudging dependency because it is not independence is like begrudging winter because it is not yet spring. Dependency blossoms into independence in its own time."
Peggy O'Mara
Peggy O'Mara
Friday, August 28, 2009
Celebrity alternative birther/ parenting
Remember the TV show Blossom? The star in that show was Mayim Bialik. Today she has a doctorate and a family. She's done a few TV shows recently and was interviewed about her parenting choices. Very interesting read with a video of the interview. Check it out with this link
http://omg.yahoo.com/blogs/goddess/spotlight-to-nightlight-mayim-bialik-from-teen-icon-to-unconventional-mom/270?nc
http://omg.yahoo.com/blogs/goddess/spotlight-to-nightlight-mayim-bialik-from-teen-icon-to-unconventional-mom/270?nc
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
Research article for Infant Massage
Read this great article showing the benefits of Infant Massage for brain development.
http://www.infantmassageusa.org/resources/articles/2009JNeurosciGuzzetta.pdf
http://www.infantmassageusa.org/resources/articles/2009JNeurosciGuzzetta.pdf
Ask Dr. Sears- working mothers and AP
Read Dr Jim's answer to the question about working mothers and attachment parenting.
Love his answer.
http://askdrsears.com/faq/ap9.asp
Love his answer.
http://askdrsears.com/faq/ap9.asp
New mothering and breastfeeding group
Starting in October of 2009 : Serendipity, Sweetness and Surrender- Breastfeeding and New Mothering Circle. You are invited to meet with other mothers, enjoy a cup of tea and relax, laugh, commiserate, learn, talk, and create together.Receive support for breastfeeding and have your questions answered by experienced mothers who also happen to be professionals. Come and nourish your mind and heart Faciltated by: Diane Berger, RN PHN & Helen Loucado, RN LMT CLA CIIM CLC call 805 643-4354 FREE!
We are solidifying our plans and I will post more details as we move forward. This will not be the typical support group. We have lots of ideas and activities that will make this a different experience. Not that we won't be offering support and answering questions but there will be much more than that.
We are solidifying our plans and I will post more details as we move forward. This will not be the typical support group. We have lots of ideas and activities that will make this a different experience. Not that we won't be offering support and answering questions but there will be much more than that.
Dr Sears on Infant Massage
Go to askDrSears.com and get lots of info. Click this link and read about the benefits of Infant Massage!
http://www.askdrsears.com/html/10/t110209.asp
http://www.askdrsears.com/html/10/t110209.asp
Sunday, July 19, 2009
Celebrity births at My Best Birth
Celebrity Birth Webisodes has now launched on mybestbirth.com with Cindy Crawford's exclusive birth story. It is running in four parts and parts 1 and 2 are available now. cindy will also be participating in a week long forum on mybestbirth.com answering questions about her birth.
see them at: http://mybestbirth.com
Keep going back as there will be other birth stories after Cindy Crawford's
see them at: http://mybestbirth.com
Keep going back as there will be other birth stories after Cindy Crawford's
Saturday, July 18, 2009
Certified nurse midwives oppose homebirth midwives
Can you believe it? Turf wars and elitism among midwives. Read the statement and Gloria LeMay's response on her blog
www.glorialemay.com/blog
www.glorialemay.com/blog
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Important information!
Please use this link to see the trailer for an important film about reducing infant mortality-
http://reducinginfantmortality.com/
http://reducinginfantmortality.com/
Friday, July 10, 2009
Exciting new format for birth class!!
In order to better serve families we are offering a unique opportunity in childbirth and parenting preparation. Our new format will be a seven week class taught by two licensed birth professionals. We will have a combined series with wonderful sessions for childbirth education and an entire session exclusively devoted to a 2 hour breastfeeding workshop. Dedicating a complete two hour session to breastfeeding helps to lay the necessary foundation for this vital nourishing and bonding phase of the holistic birthing process and gives it the importance it deserves.
There is nothing in our area that is like this class. The instructors are both holistically oriented registered nurses and have worked together in the birth community for more than 10 years. They have partnered in a way that maintains a continuity of thought and style. You will find that they truly give from their hearts and love supporting families.
This new format is designed to fully prepare parents on all levels for their birth and parenting experience. The breastfeeding portion will be presented the week after the session covering newborn care. This timing supports the learning curve and will allow participants to weave together what they have just learned about newborn care and behavior with babies’ feeding cues and instinctive behavior regarding breastfeeding. Our last session is devoted to postpartum issues and then wraps up beautifully with an invitation for ongoing connections and mentoring with classmates and instructors. ( more on this later.. stay tuned - we have additional exciting developments planned for the Fall. Feel free to email me if you'd like a preview)
We are very excited about this unique format for Childbirth Education and Breastfeeding Preparation. The instructors are looking forward to supporting you during this transformative time of your life
To learn more detail as to what exactly you will learn and how this will help you please see my web site. http://maternalinstincts.net
There is nothing in our area that is like this class. The instructors are both holistically oriented registered nurses and have worked together in the birth community for more than 10 years. They have partnered in a way that maintains a continuity of thought and style. You will find that they truly give from their hearts and love supporting families.
This new format is designed to fully prepare parents on all levels for their birth and parenting experience. The breastfeeding portion will be presented the week after the session covering newborn care. This timing supports the learning curve and will allow participants to weave together what they have just learned about newborn care and behavior with babies’ feeding cues and instinctive behavior regarding breastfeeding. Our last session is devoted to postpartum issues and then wraps up beautifully with an invitation for ongoing connections and mentoring with classmates and instructors. ( more on this later.. stay tuned - we have additional exciting developments planned for the Fall. Feel free to email me if you'd like a preview)
We are very excited about this unique format for Childbirth Education and Breastfeeding Preparation. The instructors are looking forward to supporting you during this transformative time of your life
To learn more detail as to what exactly you will learn and how this will help you please see my web site. http://maternalinstincts.net
Link to great videos& pdf booklet
Monday, May 25, 2009
OB consent form
Must read this mama's consent form she drafted for OB to sign after she has been repeatedly refused a VBAC (vaginal birth after Cesarean).
http://gisellestotalwasteofbandwidth.blogspot.com/2009/05/different-kind-of-consent-form.html
http://gisellestotalwasteofbandwidth.blogspot.com/2009/05/different-kind-of-consent-form.html
Saturday, May 2, 2009
My Best Birth- Ricki Lake
Ricki Lake's new collaborative book is available. Very exciting. Check out the web site-
mybestbirth.com
mybestbirth.com
Saturday, April 18, 2009
Friday, March 27, 2009
One mother's perspective on the contrasting models of care
Read this mother's comments about the midwifery model of care compared to the typical medical model.
http://keyboardrevolutionary.blogspot.com/2009/01/my-thoughts-on-midwifery-model-of-care.html
http://keyboardrevolutionary.blogspot.com/2009/01/my-thoughts-on-midwifery-model-of-care.html
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
Choice of Birth Settings
Check out this link regarding the National Perinatal Associations stand on this very important issue-
http://www.nationalperinatal.org/advocacy/pdf/Choice-of-Birth-Setting.pdf
http://www.nationalperinatal.org/advocacy/pdf/Choice-of-Birth-Setting.pdf
Tuesday, January 6, 2009
Frequency of posts
I wish I could post more often. I'm so busy with real life that there's not much time left for my virtual one. But I am passionate about these issues and I add things as I find them or think of them. My intention is that this blog isn't just about me expressing myself (wouldn't that get old? and predictable? blah blah blah), but I want it to be a resource, a place to share information, links etc. so that here, in one spot, others might find ways/links to do more research on their own. I strongly feel that education about pregnancy, birth, infants and parenting is of vast importance. We need to look at how and why we do things. Think for ourselves and not just accept the "experts'" opinions, question what is. If we birth and parent in an instinctive way, making conscious, informed and aware choices, it can make such a difference for our families.
Anyway, just a blurb to explain why I'm not constantly posting. Please, do keep checking as I will add things as often as I can.
Anyway, just a blurb to explain why I'm not constantly posting. Please, do keep checking as I will add things as often as I can.
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
Excerpt from the CIMS newsletter/ Midwifery model of care
Research Update: Cochrane Review reports on midwife-led versus other models of care for childbearing women
According to a newly published systematic review by The Cochrane Collaboration, midwife-led care provides benefits for pregnant women and their babies and is recommended. This review included midwives who provided prenatal, intrapartum, and postpartum care. Researchers compared midwife-led care with models of medical-led care and shared care, and included 11 trials, involving 12,276 women. The review found midwife-led care to be associated with several benefits for mothers and babies, with no identified adverse effects. Midwife-led care was associated with a reduced risk of losing a baby before 24 weeks, reduced use of regional analgesia during labor, fewer episiotomies, and fewer instrumental births. Midwife-led care also increased the woman's chance of being cared for during childbirth by a provider with whom she was familiar. Additional findings include increased chance of spontaneous vaginal birth and initiation of breastfeeding. Read the review on The Cochrane Collaboration Web site.
According to a newly published systematic review by The Cochrane Collaboration, midwife-led care provides benefits for pregnant women and their babies and is recommended. This review included midwives who provided prenatal, intrapartum, and postpartum care. Researchers compared midwife-led care with models of medical-led care and shared care, and included 11 trials, involving 12,276 women. The review found midwife-led care to be associated with several benefits for mothers and babies, with no identified adverse effects. Midwife-led care was associated with a reduced risk of losing a baby before 24 weeks, reduced use of regional analgesia during labor, fewer episiotomies, and fewer instrumental births. Midwife-led care also increased the woman's chance of being cared for during childbirth by a provider with whom she was familiar. Additional findings include increased chance of spontaneous vaginal birth and initiation of breastfeeding. Read the review on The Cochrane Collaboration Web site.
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